Confluence of families

We did it, and it was a complete success! As previously advertised, we held our first respite night for special needs family at our church on Friday night. The numbers (32 kids, 19 families, and over 60 volunteers!) are astounding to me, but the night... it wasn't so much a life-altering night, it was a life-defining night.

Rather than review the event and evening, allow me to share a few moments.

Our church was behind this event a million percent, and I can even begin to say how humbled I am by that. Financially, we were able to provide each parent/couple with a gift bag containing a $25 dinner gift card and a $10 ice cream gift card. Socially, we were able to provide each parent/couple with time off - 3 hours on their own w/ no kids. However, even more exciting to me was the joining together of our community - there were at least 4 other churches represented and...

Our very first arrival was a "walk-in" - they had not pre-registered and had only that day heard about the event from their OT, one of our volunteers. A dad, two older NT boys, and their daughter with CP. The dad was able to take the boys out to the movies for a boys' night out. The young lady enjoyed her evening with her buddies, an older couple who wheeled her around from event to event throughout the evening.

Our own Club members were some of the ones we were most concerned about from a behavior and escaping standpoint. All of them did incredibly well with their buddies, although I'm sure the adults might still be sleeping. :)

The surprise, and possibly MVP, of the night, was Joe. From a few weeks ago, mentioning "I'll be there if you need me" to becoming the impromptu MC ringleader last night. At first, he was hanging out by the inflatable Twister and there wasn't much going on there, I sensed that he was wondering if he should really be there. But soon, there were more and more kids around him. He found the microphone and soon kids were singing songs into the microphone. He heard a young baby crying and became super-Dad - after walking around and soothing the baby for about 10 minutes, he finally fell asleep peacefully on Joe's shoulder. Many people remarked to me afterwards that Joe was such an example of what the night meant to them - wow!

The buddies, as a whole, impressed me to no end. At no time was anybody frustrated, nobody complained, and we had no issues. It was just about loving the kids last night and I just kept looking around thinking 'if only this kind of love could spread infectiously throughout the community, day to day, hour to hour'.

We had kids with any number of "disabilities". We had their NT siblings ready for a good time in the gym. We had young volunteers. We had old volunteers. We had Christians and we had non-Christians. Last night, they all came together. There were no differences. Young played with old. Child played with child. There were no walls, there was no separation. There was only, for 3 hours on a Friday evening, love.